Live and Learn

In relationships, we make mistakes, we get hurt, we get up, we get hurt again, we try and try, and we get better at it along the way. However, if you refuse to acknowledge that you make mistakes, and forget to think about the other person and how they are feeling, the relationship cannot grow and move forward.

[Live and Learn]

Something for my Girls

Some times I read a status here and there all sad and regretful and yada yada, and I realise...

Girls are such Masochists -_-

Here's a set of hints from me to you to help make life more simple:

1. Don't wait, it may never come. Go get it.

Never be afraid to make the 1st move. It's better to be rejected and to move on, than wasting your life liking somebody who's just going to break your heart. If he says yes, he was probably waiting for you.

2. Never be afraid to say or do anything you want to.

You may regret not doing it. I'd rather live a life of "Oh well"s than "What if?"s.

3. Respect RelationshipsStop expecting to be treated like a princess if you don't know how to treat your guy good as well. If you expect too much, over-react, and get mad at him for no apparent reason, how is he supposed to love you?

4. Calm down!

Worrying is a waste of time. It doesn’t change anything. It messes with your mind & steals your happiness. Jumping to the worst conclusion and pestering the boy will only make things worse for you in the long run.

5. Acceptance.

If you wont accept what comes, you will be left behind. If you don't accept people for who they are, you will be abandoned. If you do not accept yourself for who you are and love yourself, you will lose yourself. Accept when things go wrong. Get back up, and try again, or try something else. Don't sit and complain, or you'll never get anywhere.

Lastly: Love will find you.

At such a young age, another break-up is NOT the end of the world. My sis is 40 this year and she JUST got married last year. You're too young to be talking about never dating ever again just cuz of one silly boy. Cry it out, cheer up with some friends, and in time, move on. You don't have to go looking for love. Just enjoy life with your friends and family, and who ever you're going out with. Make the best of your time and memories. If it ends, remember to be happy cuz the relationship happened, and not depressed cuz it ended. One day when you're not looking, love will find you. For now, relax and enjoy the ride.

Quick thought for a Friend

Being unable to stand up for yourself will only slow you down in life. If you allow even the people you love to push you around, you'll never be truly happy, and by the end of it all you'll have lost a lot of memories, and missed a lot of opportunities.

Just a Girl

I'm just a girl, but that doesn't mean I'll stay that way forever.

Maturity is a tough road, but it's one I plan on taking.

Talk Your Talk

People talk crap about me, but I don't really care... cuz in the past I've made mistakes, I've made bad decisions, and I've behaved selfishly. Growing up is difficult, and nobody is perfect. The fact still remains, I'm learning from all my adventures and misadventures and becoming a better person, while you're sitting there talking shit about me, half of which isn't even true.
[Your lies don't bother me, and your truths bother me less]

I.Am.Me

As I sat alone today in the middle of an empty space waiting for others to arrive, I had nothing to think about, nothing troubling my mind, only the lyrics of the music I was listening to playing in my head... and I realized, here I sit at 18 years old, and I know exactly who I am and where I want to go. I am perfectly content with my life O.o Weird.
[Hello? Inner Teenage Turmoil? Guess Nobody's home]